Testimonial Library
Read how other driven women who have journeyed through Expand and Impact offerings have created lasting change in how they experience themselves, others, their work and what they believe is possible for them. Massive shifts in confidence, emotional and mental freedom and overall high self-worth and influential leadership.
Impact of One on One
I uncovered so many layers under my fear of committing fully to my new business that I never knew existed inside of me. After only my first session with Violet, I realized I was creating a future that I didnât want that was causing me a lot of stress, anxiety and frustration.
Already by the end of my third session, I felt so much freedom around the choices I have in my life that I resigned from my job to give myself the space and full permission to jump into my new future with confidence and tools to keep me on the right path. Since working with Violet, I've committed fully to my new business and have clarity around how my thoughts influence my emotions and the actions and decisions I make in my life and my career.
These sessions are helping me grow and expand in all areas of my life!
Rikki Yeowart | Women's Healing and Intimacy CoachÂ
I gained so much insight into the roots of some of my stress and uncovered that I was holding onto resentment that wasnât allowing me to move forward in my career.Â
I released a lot of emotions that were causing me anger and sadness and because of it, I feel more aligned with what I want and need. Violetta guided me to feel more secure and confident in my relationships and in my ability to identify and walk away from situations that arenât right for me.
My experience with Violet was warm and above all, transformative. My self-confidence and self-trust grew faster than I could have imagined. I felt ready and equipped to step into my worth by facing the challenges I was working through instead of pushing them away and avoiding them. It was a transformative experience because I felt comfortable being vulnerable. Violet helped me find the words to understand my situation and work through emotional barriers I didnât realize were holding me back.Â
I now have new tools and strategies to support my growth in both my personal and professional life.
Lara | School Teacher
I found my 1:1 sessions with Violet so effective. Since Iâve started, Iâve built up my confidence, my self-worth and hope for the possibilities my future still holds. The techniques and tools I learned helped me look deeper into my negative thinking and identify patterns in my life that donât serve me. Iâm looking forward to continuing and uncovering more about the things that are subconsciously blocking me from my happiness.
Past High-Achieving Client
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I used to think I had to just push through everything â I was the high-functioning one, the achiever. But I was stuck in patterns I couldnât think my way out of. Working with Violetta changed that. For the first time, I learned how to access calm and clarity from the inside out â not just talk about it. Iâve done years of therapy, and nothing touched this depth.
â High-Performing CEO
Before E&I Mentorship I felt overwhelmed, had high-levels of anxiety and was constantly sick. I felt really disconnected, angry and frustrated and like moving towards my goals was met with one roadblock after another. I was also tired of feeling good and clear for a short period of time and then swinging way back down again, mentally and emotionally. I had been seeing a counsellor consistently who wasn't much help.Â
I finally reached a point where I was able to invest more into myself and that's when I found E&I. I learned how to not only handle stress better, but how to actually integrate the things I was learning. Since E&I, I continue to use the tools and techniques I learned and that has been life-changing. My anxiety is now completely manageable, I've been sleeping better, have more time to do things I want to do outside of work while feeling confident that I am reaching my goals.Â
I would definitely recommend this mentorship! Violet really understands reading the situation and the information she's given and working specifically with that. It's a very personal experience and I never felt like I was just another client. Violet took all of me into account. I felt listened to, understood and was given practical steps to feeling more like myself.
Liz | Founder & Thriving Business Owner of Figure 9 NZ
Simple and powerful! I now understand how my thoughts dictate how I interpret my interaction with a family member I've been having a lot of conflict with. My communication really started to shift after this session and I notice myself being more empathic, patient and less controlling of how I think this family member should be. Violetta is amazing at facilitating this work and asked the right questions to tease out the reasons of hidden guilt and self-judgment in me. I felt safe to express my thoughts without fear of judgment.
Amy M. | Forensic Scientist
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Iâve been in therapy since 2019 and I've never experienced this kind of change. This work is powerful, personal, and deeply liberating.
â High-Achieving Woman, Burnout Recovery
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Years of therapy didnât uncover what we found together in just a few sessions. I finally feel my emotions instead of overanalyzing them â and Iâm actually doing the things I was stuck on for years.
â Former Client
Iâve been in therapy since 2019âmostly CBTâand while it helped me understand some of my patterns, I never experienced the kind of transformation Iâve found here.
What Iâve uncovered and shifted through this work is something I honestly didnât think was possible. I used to believe that being a high-achieving woman meant living with a constant undercurrent of pressure, stress, and burnoutâthat it was just the cost of success. But what Iâve learned is that I was operating from survival, not self-connection.
Having a mentor who not only gets it, but has walked this path herselfâsomeone whoâs equity-driven, emotionally intelligent, and understands the nuance of performing while hurtingâhas been game-changing.
I feel like I have someone in my corner who sees the full picture, whoâs helped me navigate curveballs with clarity, softness, and strength.
For the first time, Iâm actually seeing changeânot just understanding it intellectually. Thatâs huge.
This work is for every woman whoâs been âdoing all the right thingsâ but still feels like somethingâs missing. Thereâs a whole other way of beingâand itâs powerful.
Teacher & Aspiring Psychologist
Impact of Group Experiences
I LOVED the framework of this workshop! It has really helped me to see where I "stick my head in" or worry/think about things that are not mine and out of my control. Since the workshop, I have been evaluating certain situations in my life and taking a step back so I can decide how I want to move forward. I've been applying the tools I learned in this workshop and my conversations and relationships have started to improve because of how my communication has shifted knowing these tools. Violetta was awesome, relatable and so engaging!
Dr Kirstin Lauritzen DC MS | The Work of Byron Katie Guest Teaching
 It takes a special person to be able to create an environment (online environment at that) where women can come together and feel truly nurtured and supported. Can't wait to attend the next experience!!! Thank you Violet.
Georgia |Â Workshop Participant
Violet holds such a beautiful experience and provides a safe, nurturing space for people to explore what's going on in their internal world.
Skye |Â Workshop Attendee